If it is not only a mother is the first

If it is not only a mother is the first Mothers face many challenges in today's world. Taking the responsibility of many roles. Through these roles are different things to different people. Sometimes we split on a career and have a family or find a conflict between the different jobs that are trying to do. Ask the question "Who am I?" Even more difficult to answer. It grows more difficult, because mothers see this little person looking through the eyes of innocent confidence, the mother is everything for a while '. You make the damage disappear BOOS-Boo with a kiss, and the persecution of monsters under the bed away, and the rocks after a bad dream. Every parent should take their responsibility and, with it, no matter where you go. This is a great responsibility to take care of this wonderful person and just be mom is always in mind. How wonderful to enjoy mommyhood, but we must remember that a mother is only a part of us, rather than allow ourselves to see that we are the best examples that can be set for our children to lead a balanced life. As a mother, I struggled to find my identity. I am a mother, a wife, a daughter, an entrepreneur, sister, friend ..... but who am I? It 'easy for you to define what you do and what you mean to others. How do these roles have our identity is fuzzy. It 'more difficult to disce. Who am I if I Logan wife or the mother of Ben? Who are you? His wife, a mother, an employee, they are all a part of who we are, but does not define her. We are the only ones able to define who we are. When there are only women? Women who are our values, ideas and philosophies, women who are able to accept their different roles in life, but still we are able to maintain a sense of "self." The importance of the definition of women who are giving the opportunity to grow as a woman. To acknowledge the need to remove all the hats that are used during the day and take time to honor who they are. The problem is that, because there are so many different roles that are not seen as more separate from them. They stop in time for themselves, because they are giving a lot to everyone else. If this sounds familiar? Has lost its identity among the different jobs you do every day? As you can see? Here are some questions that can help you determine if you are defining them by what they do instead of who you are: You spend at least an hour a day doing the things you want to do? (Reading, participating in hobbies, watch your favorite TV show, etc.) When asked to describe what has been started with "I love ..." or "I am a woman who I think / feel .. . . Or say: "I am a mother ... "or" I am a nurse ... "Can you say" no "to things that interfere with the things you want to do? Or you do not have time for? Do you think your life is in balance? This means that you have enough time to pursue their own interests, rather than just the interests of their children or significant other? Are you going to spend more time than in others? If you answered "no" to any of these questions is the time to contact you. It is necessary not only to stop you defining what you do, but I have to spend some 'time to get to know who you are. Here are some tips to contact the woman in mind. Make sure you spend time reading their own interests. The problem of defining yourself by what you do not have time to do what you want, time is spent doing for others. Doing something you've always wanted to take a class, start a book club, all that gives the time to do its thing. Especially the time to do it! It's OK to do something for you. Saying "NO" frequently! Just because you play different roles does not mean you have to do everything for everyone. Recognize when something that others could actually own. Not be exploited! Remember that the more of an advantage for others to lea to do as it is for you. Make sure you have time out of service! Like a conventional job, make sure that there is a time of day when you are finished. Do not work until you go to bed. Leave time to relax, distress, and relaxation. Wait until children are in bed and take a long hot bubble bath. Curl in his chair, with a good book. Meditate or do yoga. What relaxation. You need this time to maintain the balance. Since many functions that are "on the clock" in most cases. You must have a time of difficulty! Not that you bu out. " View your bank account, if you keep cutting without making a deposit, time will only resource. Make sure you have time to reactivate your account. I found that keeping my own identity that I am a better mother, wife, daughter, entrepreneur, sister and friend. Maintains the balance in my life, because I know that even if they are different things to different people, I know what it means to be just me.