Try too hard to be happy

Try too hard to be happy We all want to be happy. However, if a woman pushes the emotional and mental exhaustion in order to achieve this goal? perfect? Fortunately, you may be suffering from a condition that has probably never heard of: Missing Mother Syndrome. When Megan Meadows (not her real name) came to me only wanted to lose weight. ? Look at me! who shouted that quetsch thigh. ? I'm fat! I'm ugly! I hate my body? Well, it's been a little 'middle aged spread, but it was a very nice woman. If you have all this self-hatred come from? I am a professional, Meridian therapy using EFT, a form of emotional acupressure for negative emotions. Touching with your hand on some points of energy throughout the body? vote? the problem, not to stop food cravings. EFT is very effective when it comes to weight loss. But I understand that the real challenge Megan goes far deeper than what they perceive, as now? large? Issue. He said that his mother had died recently, and brought the sad story of his childhood. ? I do not have? T a mother, "said Megan. ? He was always away, and when they arrived, they tried to secure the girl of their dreams - they did not want me. I was a very lonely child. The way I saw that, Megan has worked all his life? Missing Mother Syndrome?. When Hope Edelman published her book "Motherless daughters? The Inheritance of Loss? in 1994, all those who are in possession of the secret sisterhood of women traumatized by the loss of his mother early, he had a revelation: This is exactly what I believe - and I am not alone! Grow without the sure presence of a lover, parent support is more than a model without sex. E 'devastating. Since the mother is the first basic caretaker, losing in a physical or emotional began - a nightmare of deprivation for a child. In a sense, it never ends. Many negative feelings and experiences of life in future have their roots in this traumatic experience. You could suffer? Missing Mother Syndrome? If the following conditions on a regular basis, you feel lost, misplaced, and not in this world there is a sadness in your life, even if they do not do anything wrong and does not feel lonely and depressed, especially in other people "Happy Family" Meeting you hate your body or are not sure, "As a woman," You have the task of anger issues or bad your relationship you have experience of social stress - or you try to remain invisible, or have a compulsion to be in the spotlight all the major crisis in your life, like a divorce, the loss of jobs or bereavement, throws you back into the painful past, there are a lot of anxiety, fear , shame or blame, and your life is a feeling of nostalgia, without knowing that "home" is: You try too hard to be happy and "perfect" is the refusal to take personally believe that all other continue to act together - except for you with tapping, rooted negative feelings and painful memories are transferred to the surface and be released? quickly and with little additional burden. Gary Craig, the founder of EFT:? EFT has a high success rate with the trauma and abuse, especially when applied to specific events. Happiness is not a single, solid? What? you can hunt for persistent, and possess, receive. It is rather a quality, liquid, of course, if the obstacles with which they will be dissolved. Childhood trauma is certainly one of the main obstacles. Sometimes it is a condition that is obvious is not the real problem. To recognize that? Missing Mother Syndrome? is the result of never feeling? right? may be the first step on a woman? s Healing Jouey.